Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Where did I go?

This book was actually not as difficult as I thought. At first I was too angry with the aliens to really enjoy the book, it took me a lot longer to read than usual. I was angry with the presumptuous nature of the aliens, their arrogance and how they rationalized stealing some one's life. However, the more I read, I could sort of see a bit of their side, but it wasn't until the interactions began with Melanie and the stash of humans they found that I took interest.
I don't want to ruin this for anyone as it's a bit more popular than my last choice, but I will tell you what I got out of it. Having a sense of self. Knowing exactly who you are. Finding and caring for yourself. Taking time out to care for others and care for yourself. So many things were possible for Wanda because she was so sure in who she was. She never slipped into thinking she was anything other than a soul in a body that didn't belong to her. She was overly caring and protective to a fault. I get that a lot.
I was inspired to take some time for myself. Start small and find a bit about me. I've been in a rut for a while now, the same things day in and day out, so caught up in helping others and my routine that I haven't had time for myself in a very, very long time. So, the next good weekend of weather we have I'm going to go hiking. I love hiking and I almost never go because no one will go with me. I think it's dangerous to hike by yourself, but maybe that was just an excuse. I'm going to spend the weekend doing what I want to do, going where I want to go and eating whatever I feel like eating. Starting small, I'm going to find me.

Friday, February 18, 2011

February = Alien Love?


The typical thing to read this month would be something in the romance category...however I tend to throw those in to cleanse my palate between other reads. My other choice would have been something to honor black history, but again that's frequent in my rotation. Then a friend suggested that I read The Host.
I loved the Twilight series, but honestly? If I got involved in another epic love triangle I'd probably barf. I think I'm all threesomed out. However the whole alien twist? Totally outside my giant box. I'm not really into sci-fi reads, paranormal, oh gods yes, but aliens? Not my bag, baby. I don't mind E.T. movies, LOVED Aliens, but reading about them just seems...out there. Like wearing strappy sandals with a leotard and a sweater. Separately the items might make sense but together Joan Rivers would dedicate an entire hour to the disaster that is that outfit.
So with these two personal pariahs together and the nod to Cupid, I give you my February pick. The Host by Stephanie Meyer.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Remember the Legend

John Basilone was a proud Marine whose military life, both during and in-between wars, is fraught with mystery and contradiction. His story, as told by a former Marine who had been to the harsh places that Basilone had been, albeit sometime afterward, is one of a simple small town boy joining the military, going to war and doing something courageous for his country.

Basilone started out in the Army, needing purpose and discipline in his life where it was seriously lacking, and at first he found it. However the shine wore off and as he grew morose with his Army life, he knew he wanted to get out and so he did. Back at home though, the same feelings that sent him into the Army to begin with flew around him again and again he turned to the service to make him whole, this time the Marines. Basilone was more than happy with his Marine lifestyle and did well with it. He was a Marine’s Marine. A man’s man, and a woman’s man, as it’s told. He ended up in Guadalacanal where he acted out heroic feats (some false and some true, though it’s hard to tell which) and received the Congressional Medal of Honor. The country, starting with his hometown of Raritan, New Jersey, and with a little military prodding, exploded into Basilone fever. Everyone wanted to see him, shake his hand, and hear him speak. The government decided to use this hero as best as they could, in a time when America needed them the most – Basilone went on a tour selling war bonds.

Not being a confident speaker, Basilone had trouble from the get go and poked and prodded, through many bottles of liquor, gambling and women, to have his superiors send him back into combat. He made a promise to his boys and he wasn’t going to break it. Close to two years later he got his wish. He was sent to Camp Pendleton with a new rank and a new platoon to break in. During his stay he fell in love with Sergeant Lena Riggi, who was solely unimpressed with his fame, and they were married shortly before Basilone shipped out on what would be his last mission.

‘Gunny’ John Basilone, or the earlier ‘Manila’ John, was sent to Iwo Jima to destroy the three airfields there and secure the island as a landing site for American bombers. Basilone’s actions, again with contradicting accounts, including the actual cause of his death (the most widely accepted being a mortar shell, officially GSW), would award him posthumously the Navy Cross. John Basilone was buried on Iwo Jima, then was exhumed (as many servicemen were buried where they died and later exhumed to be shipped to wherever home was) and was given a ceremonial burial at Arlington Cemetery fit for the hero his family and America believed he was.

I’ve thought a lot about what I would do after reading this book. Unless you watch ‘The Pacific’, an HBO show in which Basilone is a character or you’re a Marine or a military buff (so basically 90% of the population), you’ve never heard of this man. There were other heroes that toured with Basilone that I hadn’t heard of either. There are so many men and women that have demonstrated heroism while serving their country, and their names aren’t commonplace. Their loved ones remember them. But as in Basilone’s case, after sixty or more years there won’t be much family left that remembers.

My father served in the Army for twenty years, he has lived in numerous places and he was in Desert Storm. I remember him calling me when I was in grade school, the teacher took me aside, showed me where he was on our globe and then I spoke with him. Obviously I was too young to fully grasp the significance of the situation. The phone call was rife with static and his voice seemed far away at times, like he was underwater, and overly loud at others. I don’t remember much of what he said other than ‘Daddy is safe’ and ‘I love you’. An imperfect memory, but an important one all the same; I need to ask him about his time there, to remember it as well as I can.

In the city I used to live in, by the library, there is a small courtyard with a flag and the plaques of a few select vets. Every Veteran’s Day a wreath is placed next to the flag along with miniature flags stuck into the ground at the base of the plaques. Some people leave flowers, others steal the flags, but I wonder who those people are, who remembers them. So I’ve decided that I’m going to do some research on those names, see who they were and what they did. To make sure they are remembered in some way.

Friday, January 21, 2011

January Battles


Here is my January pick...a total dudes book. I'm fairly interested in historical wars, as much as the next girl, so I figured reading about an obscure past war hero could be fun. So far it is not what I expected. There isn't an abundance of military jargon, which I'm grateful for, but it seems a bit impersonal. Like reading a textbook in school. I assumed because the book revolved around a specific person there would be more emotion in it. Maybe I'm only getting what I'm putting in. I'll work on that this weekend.

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

New Resolutions?

I'm not usually one for New Years Resolutions, but this year I decided I needed to inspire myself. There are many things that come to mind when people share their Resolutions - mostly annoyance since I never ask, they just feel free to tell. However recently a coworker went an entire year without chocolate. I think I could go maybe a month, and that's being generous. How could he deny himself the sweet goodness and versatility of chocolate? It seems to me that most resolutions are about denial, not really change.
Some want to lose weight, so they deny themselves certain foods. Some people want to quit smoking, so obviously they deny themselves cigarettes. I'm in a frame of mind where I figure I deny myself enough, so if I was going to be resolute about anything, what should it be?
I had always bragged about how much I liked to be open and try new things - different books, foods, activities and people. But I realized that over the last few years that hasn't been the case. I can't pinpoint the exact moment I stopped being that ambitious but if I needed to change anything, it would be that. So after some reflection (mostly during Jersey Shore commercials) I had a plan. My 2011 resolution goes something like this: being the giant bookworm that I am, I will pick a book each month that I wouldn't normally read. I will write about my feelings on this book, if it affects me in any way and how it affects me. Then I will act on how I was inspired. Example: I read a book about a grandmother that knitted chastity belts for new-to-the-convent nuns. I am inspired and learn to knit.
I'm not sure how this will pan out, only that I'm determined to complete it. So, if you have time to kill, hang on for the ride. Also? Please have some patience as I'm sure whatever I post here will be sporadic at best. Thanks.